No one
is made perfect. We all have our ups and downs. Our greatness and weaknesses. But
we are all made into pairs. We have that one person so as named to be 'your
dream come true'.
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Something we all need to remember is that anyone can be ‘your
dream come true’ when you first meet them. You have no past with them. They have
a clean slate. They are on their best behavior. They are observing you. Finding
out what you like and what you don’t. That’s how they filter what they show
you. It’s all surface. It is. It’s what they allow you to see. Its human nature…
we all do this upon meeting people. This is why it’s important to soak a person
in before you attach yourself to them for life and include them in your future.
Too often we are crestfallen when we watch relationships fall apart that
started out magically💑. We say people ‘change’ but the reality is they are
who they always were. We just didn’t get to know them deeply enough.
So don’t rush…
and don’t pile fairy tale attributes upon someone who seems to say all the right
things. They are telling you what you want to hear, at first. Give it time and
watch the mask fall, and if they look the same, hold on… don’t let go. If they
are different and still feel that they are important to you, then learn to
embrace their weaknesses and live with that.
source; Today's Youths
special gratitude; Angela Gwakisas
thank you!
