Is she not answering your texts?
Is she giving you short answers?
Are you tired of emojis and smileys replies?
Do you wish not to be ignored?
Did you get blocked?
Let’s say you met a girl in a bus. The two of you talked. An
exchange of contacts happened on your departure. You decided to check on her
when you got home. What was her reaction?
The answer to that question has strings to when you met.
Did she get bored with your talk or were you the most
interesting person she had met during that day?
Was she willing to give up her dials?
The answers are all in your mind. Now, if you find yourself
in a losing position. Fearing to be
ignored. Don’t be afraid, here are some tricks bruv.
As long as she gave you her number. She is expecting you to
check her. She is waiting for that new text game to pop in. The excitement gets
wild if you were interesting at the first place.
Don’t make her excitement go down, don’t make her wait, call
her to check if she did surely save your number. Insist that she should save
it. On texting her, you should do the following;
- Avoid jamb questions. Ask to hang out with her.
Don’t start childish
conversation, asking some jamb questions, don’t do that.
Instead ask for a meet up. Most of the girls like that. So
she will make it happen as much as you want it to happen.
If she resists. Don’t take no for an answer. Keep up the
chat still convincing her on hanging out. Send her some texts like... the craziest thing happened... she would
be excited and would ask... what happened, use that excitement to get her
attention and ask her out.
Hang outs create a link giving you an advantage to pursue
her well in social medias.
Take notice my brother. If she is attractive...then you are
not the only one pursuing her.. you need to take extra precautions.
- Make sure your
level of investment always matches or is lower than hers.
What does this mean? You text her and she takes five minutes
to respond, take five minutes or longer. She writes you a two word response to
your paragraph; shorten the length of your responses.
Responding instantly to her texts sub-communicates neediness;
un-attractive. This tells her that you have nothing better to be doing with her
time, so you are waiting for her response.
- Avoid boring subjects; ensuring content is always light
and flirty. Don’t drag on the same topic for a prolonged amount of time.
Don’t talk about the weather, or “how she is”, talk about
topics that spark interest; topics out of the ordinary. These include random,
funny things that happen throughout your day, or talking about something that
sparks curiosity. The content doesn’t have to make sense; it just has to be
interesting.
- Make statements, not
questions.
Don’t ask her “how she is”, “what she is up to”, “how her
day is”. Make statements instead of questions. “I bet you’re having an awesome
day,”, “I think you’re up to no good,”, “My day can beat up your day.”
Texting is a great way to make sure you stay on her radar.
Taking the time to respond to your texts ensures she thinks about you, allowing
her to remember the reason why she liked you in the first place.
Women love to text. So should you.
source; Today's Youths
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